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Woman in the Nature

Find Inner Peace with Cooling Bridges

Moving You Forward

Hello from Cooling Bridges! I am so glad you are here, it means that you are ready to take the next step towards inner peace. 

I believe you can achieve your personal forgiveness goals with life coaching, and enjoy a new outlook on life. For more information about my services and what we can do for together, please browse through my website and do not hesitate reaching out with any questions.

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About Me

Tobi Gillen| Passionate Life Coach

I was born in Durango Colorado. I moved to Austin,TX in 2004 and after 8 years moved back to durango and have been here since.  

​I found my calling as a forgiveness coach after becoming a mother. Forgiving myself daily has helped me become a better mother of my kids. I feel much more patient with myself and with my kids compared to when I don’t forgive my shortcomings. 

Although, being a forgiveness coach was not on my radar growing up I have been lead to forgive. 

When I was a young teen my brother died. He was hit by a reckless driver. On top of grieving I felt a lot of resentment. The man who killed my brother had no idea I blamed him. I didn't even know what he looked like. Every time I closed my eyes I saw my dead brother in his casket because of that man. It wasn't until a year and a half later that I came to forgive him. He never said sorry to me, I never even met the man. But, forgiving him was the only way that I could move forward from my pain of losing my best friend. 

I dislike the feelings of resentment and self sabotage and have found the only way to release that resentment and built up anger is to forgive. 

For the past 14 years I have made it a goal to end the year with resolving any conflicts that have burdened me. I either ask for forgiveness or seek understanding. I feel light and free. 

My focus is to help ANYONE who seeks forgiveness.  If you believe in becoming a happier, healthier person, then I can help. 

I specialize in helping people identify the roots of strained relationships. Especially, if those relationships can't be avoided. Such as family, coworkers, associates or even random things you hold grudges against etc. I will help you see a positive perspective that leaves you in control of your actions and emotions. You can feel empowered and free. I help people achieve their personal peace by walking through the bridge of forgiveness and stop burning those bridges that haunt you and start cooling those bridges to HEAL you.  I take great pride in the progress and success of my clients, and look forward to helping you. Get in touch to learn more. 



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